How Do I Talk With My Doctor ?
A teen with functional abdominal pain must have a good relationship with their doctor. It is a partnership. You, as the patient, must be open about your symptoms. It can be embarrassing to discuss pain or poop habits with your doctor, but they need to have all the information to treat you effectively. You will not surprise a doctor with what you say- they have heard it all before! You should feel heard and validated about your pain and feelings around your pain. A good doctor will be compassionate, empathetic and knowledgeable.
Sometimes, teens with functional abdominal pain can feel that the pain is “all in their head.” This is not true. Your doctor should help legitimize your pain and offer some solutions for your Disorder of Gut-Brain Interaction (DGBI). Your doctor should take your concerns seriously and tailor a treatment to your symptoms and situation. The doctor should reassure you that a diagnosis of functional abdominal pain is manageable. A positive, helpful and encouraging relationship is the goal.
Be sure and follow your doctor’s instructions regarding any diet changes, medications or other treatment recommendations. Your doctor may ask you to track your symptoms, either on paper or using an app. Be diligent about doing this as it will help you get the best care. Most people think they can remember the details about their symptoms, but that can be hard over several days. Using a tracking system will be helpful.